those readers who know my diary for a longer time know that currently everything in my life changes completely. And with everything I really mean EVERYTHING. By now I already organized a lot but there is still a lot to be done. It is always exhausting to start by zero and to let the past behind you. For weeks I try to put all pieces of my life-puzzle into an overall structure. And by now I don’t exactly know how the illustration of the puzzle will look in the end, but I can already identify a beautiful picture…
Where and how I see myself in a few month I can say very quick. I see myself happy and powerful, living in a beautiful new apartment, independent and successful.
Well, we all know that it is not easy to reach goals and that there are always times when we have to be patient and to wait. And for all people who know these situations of sitting tight and waiting as good as I do, I have some hints to sweeten the standby time.
- Be patient
Well, the keyword for everything in our life is patience. We all have to rest assure that for everything we start we will need a lot of patience. Me too I am not happy of being patient and sometimes I want all at once. But there are always moments, weeks or maybe months everything seems to proceed very slowly and then there is no other way than lean back and stay cool. Give destiny the chance to develop because every progression needs time to mature.
- Focus on small steps
Details and small steps are much more important than the big picture in the end. Work well on details and then the big picture will be perfect. Step by step everything has to be done well, take enough time for all the very small but very important details.
- Treat your body and your mind with respect
Now it is time to change everything you always wanted to change… change your nutrition habits, do more sports, take more sleep, drink more water and make fresh smoothies. Take timeouts to pamper yourself. A bath, new facial masks, scented body lotions, a new perfume, beautiful makeup and hair, everything is important to feel good and to refuel yourself with new energy and power for the stressful times and the important duties. Avoid any contact to people who try to bring you down and always think positive. There is no reason to give up because there is no stagnation in life. After bad times there will be always good times and for the good times we want to be ready.
- Enjoy the sun, the nature, read good books, meet friends & go out
In brief: split the course of your day into two sections. The first one is the section where you have to organize everything and to work hard. The second section is the one you need to keep up. In my leisure time I try to shut off everything that strains me and I only focus on the moment. During my yoga lessons I learned how to shut off everything and only to focus on myself, my breath and the moment. This gives me a lot of power.
- Trust in the good
Last but not least the code of success: Trust in the good. I know, this sentence everyone of us really hates! “Trust in the good”, so simple but so hard to follow. We can not expect that everything develops fast and without any detention. This is an illusion and of course we always hope that this would be possible, this imagination is far away from reality. But this doesn’t mean that in the end we won’t be happy and successful. No, in the end everything will be good.